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Lyndsay Kaldor's avatar

I found this a very important read and reframe. I absolutely agree that we are working/creating/mothering 100% of the time whether we are actually at our desks or with our children, or indeed creating in the edges of it all. One no longer exists without the other for me. There is never a time I am not thinking about creating and there is never a time I am not feeling the pull to my children. The physical writing does take up a lot of my time and the thinking about it is pretty much constant… this realisation definitely prompts me to rethink the value of my time, thank you Elin xx

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Lori L. Cangilla, Ph.D.'s avatar

This is a beautiful and thought provoking piece, Elin! I’ve noticed for myself that the more I embrace the “and” of my list of identities, the less stressful it feels to try to give time and energy to all those parts of me. I no longer feel like I’m shortchanging whatever is outside my immediate focus. Thank you for articulating this message in such a permissive, encouraging way!

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