For part-time writers and artists
You’re never not a full time parent even if you don’t spend all your time with your children, then why are you not a full time artist if you don’t always do art?
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Hi there!
Let’s talk about part-time creatives/artists.
Disclaimer; I don’t write these reflections for anyone to feel bad about themselves. Quite the opposite in fact.
I write these reflections and sort of criticism of the term “part-time”, as a way to hopefully empower you to embody your artistry as a full time identity.
What’s the deal with being part-time?
I think that part of the problem for artists when forced to put a value on their work, is to not recognize it as something wholesome regardless of whether one derives one’s full income from it or not.
Of course, I understand that the label of doing something “part-time” comes from economics. When we do something part-time it means that we generally don’t make a living from it. And in most cases have another job to fill the “other part”.
My problem is this;
To me, being an artist and creative is less of a work or money question and more of an identity question.
Like this;
I AM AN ARTIST. I AM A WRITER.
Whether I’m making art or not at a particular moment doesn’t make me less of an artist or writer.
Whether my bills get paid by my art or writing at a particular moment or not, doesn’t make me less of an artist or writer.
Just think about it…
All dear mothers (it tends to be mothers, but can of course be fathers too), who refer to themselves as part-time creatives while being home with children… Does this mean that you’re not a parent the time you work on your art, and that you’re not an artist the time you work on your home?
This is directly linked to the definition of what work is. And whether work only counts as work if there’s a monetary exchange involved.
For many it’s also a question of time.
If you don’t spend a majority of your time doing something, then it’s just a part time work/hobby/activity.
I’ll be frank with you:
I spend the majority of my time working ON my home as in being with my family and everything that is involved in that. But I pay my bills with my art and writing.
Does this make me a part time artist?
NO.
I’m a full time artist and writer, as well as a full time mother, as well as a full time of everything else that I’ve adopted as part of what makes me whole.
Why so many (probably everyone?) struggle with balance is perhaps more a question of trying to figure out the parts. Not just their respective percentages, but more so what the varying bits really are.
Parenthood, just like artistry, fluctuates constantly, which means more energy risk to go to waste trying to figure out what’s the part time stuff and what’s the main stuff.
I’ve personally stopped doing any such divisions. It’s a waste of energy for me. Because I can never not be myself. And I wouldn’t be myself if I don’t have all the parts with me at all times.
This makes me wonder…
What would happen if more people embodied a full time approach to all their parts, as opposed to dissecting themselves into part-time identities?
Would it make it easier to charge for your art?
Would it make it easier to stand up for your parenting choices?
Would it make it easier to follow your gut?
What do you think?
Thank you for reading as always!
Elin, xx
Ps.
I found this a very important read and reframe. I absolutely agree that we are working/creating/mothering 100% of the time whether we are actually at our desks or with our children, or indeed creating in the edges of it all. One no longer exists without the other for me. There is never a time I am not thinking about creating and there is never a time I am not feeling the pull to my children. The physical writing does take up a lot of my time and the thinking about it is pretty much constant… this realisation definitely prompts me to rethink the value of my time, thank you Elin xx
This is a beautiful and thought provoking piece, Elin! I’ve noticed for myself that the more I embrace the “and” of my list of identities, the less stressful it feels to try to give time and energy to all those parts of me. I no longer feel like I’m shortchanging whatever is outside my immediate focus. Thank you for articulating this message in such a permissive, encouraging way!